What is involved in a guided masturbation session? What is the point and is it something you might want to try? Well, guided masturbation is essentially penis control—a man being guided through his self-pleasure and being told what to do by someone else. Occasionally, the act of masturbation can become somewhat boring. However, having someone else tell you what to do can bring about intense orgasms. Plus, it is anything but boring. Learning a little more about why we masturbate, what to expect during a guided masturbation session, using a dominatrix or your partner to guide you and ways to enhance the experience can help you decide if it’s a good fit for you.
Guided Masturbation
Masturbating is the glorious art of sexual self-stimulation. Sadly, for some, there is still a sense of embarrassment associated with it. Sometimes religion plays a role in making people feel shame. Sometimes people are just embarrassed because they think no one else is doing it. However, masturbation is completely normal and healthy. We masturbate because it feels good and it allows us to explore our bodies. This is how we learn what feels good and what turns us on. Men do typically masturbate more frequently than women. For them, it is a sense of having to have a release—not always just because it feels good. However, it does feel absolutely great! As well, it is physically healthy for a man to ejaculate. The monotony can get a little boring at times, but guided masturbation can spice things up a bit.
Some things you can expect and do to enhance your session:
- Relax and use all of your senses. Pay close attention to what the person who is guiding you is saying. Listen to the sounds of the room. Focus on any smells in the room. Focus on the feeling of your penis in your hand and the way your body is feeling. If you are comfortable with it, look the person who is guiding you in the eyes. Some people may not be comfortable with this, however. If this is you, simply close your eyes. Being very aware of your surroundings will surely make for an amazing experience.
- Trust the person you are with. Sometimes it is hard for us to relinquish control over to someone else. Nonetheless, guided masturbation is all about giving up control. The person in charge will enjoy having control and watching you pleasure yourself.
- Be ready to change your position, your movements and the speed with which you are pleasuring yourself. This is one of the key components to guided masturbation. You may at any moment be told to change the pace of your stimulation or change where you are stimulating. Going from up and down to squeezing, for instance.
- Be prepared to have to work for it. The one doing the session is having fun too. Part of that fun is making you work for that intense climax. They may bring you close to climax and make you stop, despite your desires. You might want to change what you are doing, but they will not let you. This is all part of the fun.
One of the main reasons a man may be interested in guided masturbation is to learn edging. Edging is a term used to describe when a man comes close to a sexual release, but stops. When he does finally release—the feeling is extremely intense. This technique also works well for women. Repeating the process of coming closer to climax several times can make for an amazing orgasm in the end. Learning to edge is often the point of guided masturbation. When we masturbate alone, we are often in a hurry and not interested in drawing out the process. When you have someone there doing a session with you; they have all the control.
Guided masturbation is likened to a form of hypnosis. Closing your eyes and focusing only on the voice of the person dominating you. Not in a trance, but fully aroused. For some, it is a fantasy that must be fulfilled. The need to be dominated growing stronger and stronger. If this is a truly intense desire—then a dominatrix might be the way to go. A dominatrix is a female who is only interested in making sure you behave. She has complete control over what you do and when you do it. One who performs a guided masturbation session with you is often referred to as a masturbatrix. She will tell you exactly how she wants you to masturbate, when to stop and if she will allow you to ejaculate. They specialize in teasing and denial. Often bringing you just to the point of climax; then making you stop and go home. This type of dominating is not always for the faint of heart. However, a truly professional dominatrix is a safe person. She can be trusted with all your fantasies and it is a pleasure for her as well. If you are not fortunate enough to live near a dominatrix; then there are plenty of them available online for web camera and phone sessions.
Maybe you have a willing and a frisky partner to help you with guided masturbation. Couples should explore their sexual desires with one another. It is healthy and often brings two people closer together. As well, guided masturbation is fun for both people involved. While men are usually the ones on the receiving end—guided masturbation works great for women too. Women often have fantasies of being dominated—this is not just limited to men. Bringing her almost to the point of climax and stopping several times will make her orgasm just as intense.
Guided Masturbation – The Conclusion
Guided masturbation is a fun way to explore a different side of our sexuality–testing the limits of our body and our trust. As well, learning as much as you can about this wonderful experience can help you decide if guided masturbation is something you want to try.
